Refrain From Sending Too Much Text Messages And Calling Your Ex When Drunk
During the process of a break up, you are bound to be in a sensitive state and delicate decision making should probably be avoided. Things won't be very easy and it may be a little difficult to get your ex back if this is what you decide to do.
It's okay to make mistakes because we all do. You need to make sure you are not making the wrong mistakes at this point.
One of the biggest mistakes to make during a sensitive time like a break up, are drunk dialing and text overload. I know it can be hard to deal with a break up that you don't want, and when you have things to get off your chest, but contacting your ex while upset, isn't a good idea.
1. Text bombing: is when you text and call an extreme amount. If you are doing this with moderation, it's not so bad.
Even if the calls and texts are done over time and spread out, you could still really mess things up for yourself with your ex. If they are calling or texting you, you shouldn't be calling or texting them. That is unless you want to add to the tension and lessen the chances of getting your ex back.
2. Drunk phone calls: be less concerned with the quantity and more with what you may actually say. This kind of call will happen after drinking and feeling low on yourself.
This will make you look weak and desperate to your ex, but to yourself you are thinking you are doing a good thing by pouring your heart out.
So with all that being said, it's best to avoid both of these huge wrong mistakes. Even if you were to catch yourself in the midst of doing this then change your mind will save you from feeling embarrassed the next day.